Wow, its been a very long time. However, J from Music Planet asked for a man's opinion on some very general questions and I wanted to pay her back for the many hours of entertainment I've been very fortunate to indulge in, so here goes... Q1: What is too 'big'? I'm assuming this is solely a weight question. I'm on the tall side myself, so I've never met a woman I considered too tall. I also must clarify here that I'm using the American definition of 'big' rather than the Korean because it is shockingly amazing how different the two countries and people define this simple word. Having said that, I need to set up a couple of more assumptions. 'Big' is different depending on the relationship of the woman to uh, me. A woman in short shorts on the subway I could easily consider 'big' because she is parading herself for all to see. If she were my gf, her weight may not even be an issue. Another assumption or consideration is a woman's height. 150 on 5'7" is acceptable but it would be pushing it on someone 5'. It comes down to this. If we are talking about my gf, my definition of 'too big' would become her definition of 'too big'. I haven't met a woman who doesn't care about their weight, so whatever she considers 'too big' would be my ultimate definition. If she considered herself 'too big', she would do something about it and I would support her as best as I could. Once she's satisfied, I would be satisfied. Beauty is only skin deep for any serious relationship, so it wouldn't be an issue to me. I can honestly say that if my life partner gained a 100 lbs., I would love her just the same if she was okay with her new look. It sounds a bit weak to admit, but I wouldn't care. Q2: What is sexy? There are many things that women do that defines sexy for me. The most obvious is skin, but in moderation. Sometimes a bare shoulder is much sexier than 3/4's of financed cleavage. Or toned calves below a form fitting business dress rather than bulging thighs from overworked Daisy Dukes. I can't really say for sure what is sexy until I see the whole package. I've seen some women trying to be sexy in hooker heels that made me cringe and walk away but for some reason, the same pair work on another girl. I think it has to do with moderation. Simple but sexy. I've never seen a sexy graduate of accessory anonymous, but I've seen some very sexy college students in a face covering cap that threw something on that morning. You can never be sexy if you're trying to be sexy. I think a girl's confidence in herself radiating via her clothing is the sexiest look. Q3: What do you look for in a woman? I didn't hear J ask this question directly, but I decided to add it because I think it's along the lines of 'what men think'. I must admit that in my age, the answer to this question has changed a great deal since I was younger. In my youth, the magazine definitions of sexy was pretty much my own. I wasn't wise enough to know the beauty of the mind and heart. So, what do I look for in a woman now? I would look for her desires for me. I want to love a woman that is in love with me, now, in this battered state. I want to love a woman who can believe in me and have faith in me that I will support us and our family in every way, everyday. I made the terrible mistake of falling for a fake ass bitch that wanted to mold me into her ideal man. I am who I am and anyone who can accept me for who I am is the person I can love forever.
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